My grandmother does not hesitate to put a card or letter in the mail. She has been my pen pal for many years, from birthdays to travel days, and even now she sends me a combination of letters and cards, always reminding me of the importance of not rushing the creating process and sharing when I am ready. She encourages me to take my time, whether writing a poem or preparing a meal. One day she said to me, you know you could be writing the words in these cards. The idea lit me up and we beamed. I have followed her advice and taken my time. She is excited about Penultimate Moments. I am grateful for her support and honored to love and learn from her.